Looking for some more good gay oriented reading material? Here are some books with more practical gay dating tips, gay sex tips, guides and advice as well as some humor for gay men. Enjoy!
The 7-Day Dating and Relationship Plan for Gay Men: Practical Advice from the Gay Matchmaker (Paperback) by Grant WheatonHow does a single gay guy find his way to a right, lasting relationship? Our dating expert shares authentic sagas straight (so to speak) from his client’s experiences to illuminate his seven principles, developed to help navigate today’s dating challenges. From numerous tips and amazing but true anecdotes to fun-filled facts about where the boys are, readers will escape the dating minefields and find relationship success.
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10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love (Paperback) by Joe KortThe author of the best-selling 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives turns his attention to the burning question of love. “There are few books for gay men on not only what to look for in Mr. Right but how to become Mr. Right. My book will address both. It is not just about finding him, it is what you do after you find him,” says author Joe Kort.
A certified Imago Relationship Therapist, Kort has employed the ideas put forth by Imago founder Harville Hendrix to transform the lives and relationships of the countless gay couples he has worked with in 20 years of private practice. In “Your Sexual Shadow,” one of his new book’s 10 life-altering chapters, Kort unveils a surprising and groundbreaking idea that explores how decoding sexual fantasies can often unlock the mystery to what gay men are looking for in a partner and why. This will be particularly elucidating to men who have been conditioned to believe their sexual fantasies are an obstacle to long-term relationships. How can the secret logic of “dark” sexual desires help you find Mr. Right?
“So many of my clients say they have to get better before they find Mr. Right,” reports Kort. “I think that is often a reason to avoid relationships and simply not true.” His new book is a practical guide to set gay men on the path to true love today.
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Boyfriend 101: A Gay Guy's Guide to Dating, Romance, and Finding True Love (Paperback) by Jim SullivanYou’ve done the bar thing. You’ve let your best friend set you up. You’ve even logged on to a gay dating website. But the man of your dreams is still out there, just waiting for you to find him. What’s a gay guy to do?
Whether you’re new to the dating scene or just wanting a refresher course, in Boyfriend 101 you’ll find an abundance of practical tips for meeting the right man (and avoiding the wrong ones) and keeping him (and you) interested for the long term. Topics include:
• Deciding what you need versus what you want in a boyfriend
• Icebreakers that actually work
• Expanding your social network
• The best places to meet men
• Writing a hot personal ad or online profile
• First-date protocols (or, Waiting until after the third date to have sex)
• Discussing HIV and negotiating safe sex
• Maintaining a healthy body image
• Overcoming fear of abandonment
• Creating healthy lines of communication with your boyfriend
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Get Closer: A Gay Men's Guide to Intimacy and Relationships (Paperback) by Jeffrey N. Chernin Ph.D., MFTEach relationship is as individual as the men who are involved. Rather than rely on a one-size-fits-all approach to relationship success, Dr. Jeffrey Chernin helps each of us to acquire a better understanding of ourselves and how we engage in intimate relationships. In this warm and compassionate guide, Chernin helps us answer the questions we long to answer:
• How can I build a long-lasting partnership?
• Why am I afraid to get closer?
• How can I open myself to deeper, more intimate communication?
• How can I put an end to ongoing fights and stalemates with my partner?
• How can I meet someone to share my life with?
Having counseled gay men for more than a decade, Chernin shows how you, too, can build a strong, lasting relationship. Discover the love and intimacy that await you.
Get Closer: A Gay Men's Guide to Intimacy and Relationships.
The Joy of Gay Sex, Revised & Expanded Third Edition (Paperback) by Charles Silverstein and Felice PicanoFor a new century and a new generation of readers comes a fully revised and expanded edition of a classic guide to gay sex, love, and life.
Noted psychologist Dr. Charles Silverstein has collaborated once again with critically acclaimed novelist Felice Picano on this third edition, updating every single entry and adding nearly thirty new entries.
The authors provide positive and responsible advice on safe sex in all its varieties; on emotional and relationship-oriented issues such as long-term couples, loneliness, and growing older; and on scores of diverse topics ranging from spirituality to online dating.
With fifty new line drawings by acclaimed illustrator Joseph Phillips, this landmark reference is a necessary addition to every gay man's bookshelf.
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