5 Tips To Get Things Spicy!
Spicing Up Your Sex Life -- Quick Recipes for Hot Gay Sex!
Are your boyfriend's eyes and hands straying? Is your sex life stale and lifeless? Here's five hot ways to put the fire back into your sex life and awaken those feelings you had when you first met!
Keep Your "Sexdar" Pinging - Or Actively Look For Opportunities for Steamy Sex
Go with the flow of life. If your partner seems a little horny, don't ignore the signals. Asking him outright, can get an affirmative response but sometimes guys get these little guilty twinges and won't verbally admit that they're horny.
So, when you ask your guy if he's actually feeling in the mood, make body contact; cuddle and press in...
Engage In Spontaneous Sex
Unexpected, unannounced, unscheduled and unplanned sex can relieve the tedium of routine sex habits.
If you've been going out with a guy for some time or you're in some sort of permanent relationship, chances are, you've both settled into a nice comfortable routine; including having sex on specific days of the week or month.
Sure it's nice to have something to look forward to and it's even good to have some time set away for just the two of you, but spontaneity and surprises are the spice of sex life.
Having a good fuck in the kitchen after you've finished washing the dishes with your partner is a fun and unexpected way to end a meal. This leads me to...
Taking Sex Out Of the Bedroom
The bedroom is usually a nice and convenient place to have sex, but it's certainly not the place that you have to do it in. Other places in or out of your home can offer just as much fun or more.
There are so many other places, even in a small condo or apartment where you could be having sex. The bathroom is always a classic place to have a bit of fun. In the shower or bathtub, on the toilet, leaning against the sink; take your pick...
The living room, rec-room, dining room, and music room, (a favorite) are also good places to choose from. Who says that those places are off limits to sex? Give it a whirl!
Sex Toys Are For Couples Too
Yes, sex toys aren't just for solo self-satisfaction; couples can use and benefit from them too. Dildos and butt plugs, (if they're of the smaller size) work wonders for relaxing and preparing your partner for real anal sex. Dildos and butt plugs also serve as a great way to have two way anal sex without the hassles of actually having a third guy in on the action.
There are other sex toys and accessories worth checking into as well. If you haven't been in a sex toy store lately, check your local Gay Sex Toy Store out. Speaking of which, check out my Sex Toy Page, there's some neat items there that will heat things up and there's more at my merchant partners site too.
Try Out Different Sex Positions
Honestly, there really is wide variety of positions to have sex in whether it's anal or oral sex. Be bold and try something different for a change! If you're always the "Top", switch places and be the "Bottom" for a change of pace. If you're always doing it "doggy style", try having sex standing up, or maybe sitting down.
Surf some gay web sites for inspiration. You could also check out one of the many books that have been written on the subject of positions and techniques.
Sex is supposed to be pleasurable and fun, so go ahead and spice it up!
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