Gay Dating Tips: Acronyms, Abbreviations, and other Online Gay Personals Ads Codes
Do gay personals ads, message boards and chat rooms all look like people are speaking a foreign tongue to you? Find out a few of the common codes they're using.
Acronyms and Abbreviations Commonly Found in Gay Personals Ads:
- 69: Sixty-nine -- to give mutual BJs.
- A: Asian
- ALT: Alternative sex - doesn't necessarily refer to gay sex (often refers to BDSM and assorted kink)
ASL: Age Sex Location - used mainly in chat and instant messaging
B: Black
BB: Bare Back or Bare Backing - to have anal sex without a condom.
BDSM: Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism
Bear: refers to gay men who have beards and/or mustaches - bearded mainly
BI: Bi-sexual
BiF: Bi-Sexual Woman
BiM: Bi-Sexual Man
BJ: Blow Job(s)
Blnd: Blond
Brn: Brunette
Bottom: Guy who prefers to be on the receiving end as it applies to fucking
C: Christian
CD: Cross Dresser
CPLS: Couples
Cub: refers to younger bears
Cut: No foreskin
D: Divorced (usually referring to a straight marriage - can refer to gay partnership and now with gay marriages being legal in many places, it won't be long before this is going to also refer to previous gay marriages.)
DDF: Drug/Disease Free
Dom: Dominant Male
DM: Divorced Male (usually referring to a straight marriage)
DGM: Divorced Gay Male (usually referring to a straight marriage)
Fems: feminine - more feminine than your "average" gay male
FF: Fist Fucking
FTM: Female To Male Transsexual
GAM: Gay Asian Male
GSOH: Good Sense of Humor
GWM: Gay White Male
H: Hispanic
HWP: Height Weight Proportional
ICQ: I Seek You - free online messaging service at www.icq.com
IM: Instant Messaging (AOL Instant messaging, ICQ, Yahoo! Messenger, MS Messenger etc...)
IRL: In Real Life
ISO: In Search Of
J: Jewish
LD: Light Drinker
LDR: Long Distance Relationship
LOL: Laughing Out Loud (found everywhere these days but it's usually found in chat rooms, e-mail, message boards and sometimes ads...)
LS: Light Smoker
LTR: Long Term Relationship
M: Male
M2M: Men To Men, Male To Male, Man To Man. EG: M2M Sex.
MSM: Men Seeking Men
MTF: Male To Female Transsexual
ND: Non-drinker
NLP: No Losers Please (I've always wondered - what if you don't know you're a loser?
)NS: Non-smoker
P: Professional
Pics: Pictures (often erotic pictures but not always.)
PLS: Please
PnP: Party And Play; usually under the influence of drugs.
POS: HIV Positive
S: Single
SBPM: Single Black Professional Male
SD: Social Drinker
SGM: Single Gay Male
SI: Similar Interests
SOGM: Single Oriental Gay Male
Sub: Submissive
SWGM: Single White Gay Male
SWPM: Single White Professional Male
Top: Guy who prefers to be the one who fucks - or the male dominant
TG: Transgender
TS: Transsexual
TV: Transvestite
Uncut: Has foreskin
Vrs: Versatile -- giver or receiver / Top or Bottom
W: White
W/: With
W/E: Well Endowed
WASP: White Anglo-Saxon Protestant
WS: Water Sports - piss sports
YO: Years Old
- A: Asian
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